Effortless Parenting

Effortless Parenting

"Effortless Parenting" must be sounding a contradiction in terms to you.You may ask how? Because it does not tally your experience. Neither you find being 'effortless' to be a common experience of parents around you. Amongest the hair raising experiences that parents are passing through, certainly "effortless parenting" would be something that would attract your attention.Isn't it?

Let us look in to the struggle you are experiencing. foe example let us see 'My child doesn't listen' as the most common struggle. Do you see that for every situation that you are struggling with your child also has to struggle?and then the effort begins.....

Now if your child doesn't need to struggle against you why would you need to struggle against him?

You also need to get this point that your child and you share a relation of perfect reciprocity. That means your feelings which get converted to your thoughts which in turn are vocalised, find a perfect reflecting mirror image in your child. Your child mirrors your vocalised thoughts in to its equivalent feelings. He struggles too.

The tussle is the effort.

Get rid of tussel. Try to flow. You will start feeling effortlessness.

This applies to making the child sleep, making the child eat, making the child wear or remove clothes and all that.

And then when you find yourself to be more trusting, more at ease, more relaxed you will find your child gets more often than not your point, you want to communicate.

By the way this is not being patient, but being accepting and quickly being mobile with the given situation.

If you are following a strict regime for your life your child will struggle. Find out somebody who in principle follow what I am saying with your child. Your child can understand you also and enjoy his freedom also.