Happy Days Are Here Again
……………… Refreshing Days Are Here Again
Hallo dear
Love you all !
One question for you all dear parents
Are you really feeling the presence of your baby/child with the great zeal and the best tempo on every single day, day in and day out?
Or has the tempo faded down!
If it has, then remember you are not the only one out over here.
We are not sharing this to comfort you but rather to shake you up. When there are many parents like you, it is even more difficult see the reality as it is. The reality gets clouded by what we see and hear mostly around us.
We can be complacent when most of the parents around us are also sharing there misery to us.
We may finally conclude that this is the way it is and that all are supposed to be living within this compromised state.
We say even if one parent and one child on this earth are experiencing what most of us only dream of, then we must never remain complacent until we also live our dreams.
For most of us the reality that we are living in, is far away from what our dreams are.
We habitually live in the compromised state for a long time. We are doing the same things again and again and attracting same results again and again.
For us to see ourselves in different reality, we have to get out of our patterned thinking and do something new to get new set of results.
That is how we add creativity to our parenting role. Creativity aims at bringing new results . They can not come out of our old patterns or something that we already think and believe we know.
Thus mind which is the accumulation of the known in the past is of no use to us in being creative parent.
Our children are creative all the time in their life. They are a combination of an all together new individual , meeting with all together new life situation, resulting in to all together new happenings.
All of us adults like this newness in a child in our vicinity.
You bet your child likes the newness in you as well . A new you responding differently to a new life situation.
I mean the creative you.
The moment this new you emerges out of the you from the one you are already accostomed to, your job is done.
You again start experience those happy days, those refreshing days which you once experienced : you remember ; when you were small children ?
Give yourself that opportunity.
Good Luck
Get going. Do something differently,.... Today. Right Now.
Dr Atul and Dr Arti
The Program Developers
"Genius Babies Joyous Parents"
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