A parenting coach:

One significant event happens in our life at some point of time. We become Parents ………we have children

If I ask parents of young ones as to what that one happiest moment would be out of their past experiences, then most of them say birth of their baby.

But as we move along the general feeling that most of them talk about they being parents is how tough they find themselves to be in the role with various demands of that role and how incompetent they feel to handle the challenge.

To my understanding the main reason for this unending series of failure as parents is that, we lack the necessary preparation. Our education system does not prepare us for life and the responsibilities that we are expected to take up when we are thrown in to the responsibility.

The only qualification that we feel as necessary for us to be a parent is to get married. Getting married does not really qualify us to be a parent. Where as acquiring the skill to be able to know what it takes to be a parent would certainly be.
What it means to be in the vicinity of a baby so that we as parents are contribution to his growth? Part of that question is what do we mean by growth?

What is the real potential with which a baby comes in to this existence?
What can I expect as results that we all can witness as a consequence of creating a growth promoting environment in the vicinity of a baby?
How do I shift myself from being illiterate parent to literate parent?
Do I have Parenting Intelligence?
The sad part is most of us already are having a perspective about parenting. We hold this perspective majorly through our own experiences as children and in what way our parents have been to us and partly through the kind of parents that surround us. We learn through their approach towards children.

So we all are moving ahead with a bracketed/limited view and thus there are heavy restrictions to our thinking (freely) about our responsibility. A child’s approach to look at the world of opportunities rarely hits us. We carry on getting disguised by the small size of the Genius in the form of our baby.
We are often found to be doing no justice to this phenomenal responsibility handed over to us by the existence.

Because we are not expected to think but to follow the routine majority of us follow the universally accepted and set rules about parenting. It results in to hodge-potch approach to parenting. The results are saddening. A baby who is born genius lives like an ordinary human being, a part of the herd.
Most of us are not even aware of the fact that it is inadequacy of parents that begins the whole process of a child living a limited life.
Few amongst us live fuller, rich, abundant, happy and peaceful life. So few of us who are born potentially somebody of the calibre of Dyaneshwer live like Dyaneshwar.

So dear parents my message to you is be a parent only to give your heart and sole to this important important important role.

Learn every thing that you can to understand your child as an infinite infinite infinite potential and that needs to actualise.

And finally apply it to your life, the life of your children and to your family

You will be thus truly able to build a creator of creations out of your child and this would be an important qualification that would be parent needs to possess.

One of the most crucial thing that can happen to you and your family is you will emerge out very strong and balanced and abundantly rich families.

So finally ……

Knowledge and understanding that will emerge out of that knowledge about your role as a parent should be your top priority.
The results are life transforming, truly amazing.
But it’s a hard work that you will need to do just for a couple of years.
And then just sit back and relax and witness the giant leaping out of the tiny body of your baby.
Believe me you will have to stretch your imagination far beyond what you think your child is capable of.
And by the by you have a second chance to relive your own life to the full potential with the help of your child.

I recommend you to ask the following questions to yourself and sincerely put down on a piece of paper the answers to them.
Your journey is about to start with your answers to these questions.
You will gain greater clarity as to what your objectives, goals, and obstacles with respect to your parental role are.

1. My Dreams and Goals. . . what is your big picture, the long term of what you want for your life, your family or what you want to do with your time. What specifically do you want to accomplish in the next 6-12 months
2. What's holding me back? ..What are the brick walls or obstacles that are holding you back or slowing you down from being as successful or as effective as you know you can be.
3. How would a parenting coach help?...If you had a coach, what difference would it make?
4. Why do I need to do this now?...This is not an endeavour for procrastinators. So, what gives you the sense of urgency that now is the time to do this?
Whether you want your children as your copies or do you want a life for them which will be 1000 times bigger than the one you lived.
One way or another, a decision needs to be made at this juncture.

We will coach you further if you allow us to trespass your territories.

Remember that coaching is based on your ability to make and keep commitments.

With lots of love
Dr Atul Abhyankar
Founder Director of Harmony Holistic Hut
Designer of parental workshop Genius Babies Joyous Parents
dratul.harmony4u@gmail.com

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