Your yesterday need not determine what kind of parents you are TODAY!

Experience is not what happens to you. it is what you do with what happens to you.
ALDOUS HUXLEY
"Transcenders" are individuals who flourish despite traumatic childhoods.
What makes these children different from those who are crushed by their upbringing?
It's what they do with what's happened to them that makes them so successful.
When life gives them raw mangoes they make tasty pickle out of it.
we all have ability to trancend the events in out lives. we do this when we trust our own perceptions about our childhood.
By acknowledging what frightened and wounded us as children, we are more prepared to protect our children from the adult conditioned abuse.they having to adjust to situations as "children often must" like nature , children have a healing influence on our lives.
An adult who spends even fifteen minutes and gives undivided attention to the minutest details of their child finds himself back to his own childhood.
many of us go through periods when we only remember the anguish and turmoil of our childhood. Although this is a necessary part of purging our pain, it is essential for us to remember that it is not the permanent place of residence.
With children out in to the wild we can follow our children. we can share their intence facination with the smallest details of a flower; the spots on the lady-bugs back; the strands of a spider's web.
with them, we can be drawn back to the magic of our own childhood. We can "fall down the rabbit hole" and discover the treasures of childhood that have been buried deep in our hearts.


Dr Atul n Dr Arti
'Genius Babies Joyous Parents'